Homo vivere sine amore nequit
Man can not live without love
Man can not live without love
eleven months ago today I had my first date with who is now my husband. We know that time is relative: one man's short, for others an eternity, especially within the LGBT community.
Many things we think about the fact of taking nearly a year next to this boy I love, thousands of them passing the Diaye are not revealed to the world, yet there is a special that I have really wanted count and that, although more has to do with me, is more than obvious that is the product of my relationshipwith him.
My father taught me many things that once did not know they were lessons, and now I'm married with pleasure when I discover I like him. Why say this? Because despite being in a marriage-I know it's free union-made by two men, I see in me the attitude of my father for being not "the boss", but "those who seek solution. "
Yes, it is true that hate going to the supermarket, which I'm afraid the markets and that when I know nobody believed that such a giant of Nef have to ask for help to openAmi juice, but the thing goes beyond the simplicities of a can of drink. Always with the consensus of Nano, I who is responsible for paying the rent, make the "super-sized" see that we need at home or in the pantry, think about what we do when we rest. Nano supports and does not stay like carnival, but I see that I am "The Big One" of the house ... as did my father as a child.
Today, for example, was only a change of Nano and rest during the day I went "from tingo to tango" doing housework, going to buy, bank, pay the rent go! Even the super had to go alone - & iexcl, snif! -. What does this do to my father? When I was in this work, I remembered how he fulfilled duties even on his day off, like him, I know that responsibility is shared, because although it is a Nano who is responsible for doing housework, I could not ignore the needs when I see it.
Dad never despised chores and when she always thought about how to get my mother to get from their work, not have to be to work at home. Today I felt so today I thought a lot about my kid while washing the trastes, mopped the house or shop was "sympathetic" I went to buy a thermal mug for my desk and ended up buying a colander, bowls, a pitcher and checking prices to buy things that make life easier at home.
considered the "greatest responsibility" of the house is not flattering to my ego or a demerit for my relationship, both Nano and I know that there are things I have to take more out than in others. I know that my husband is young and is maturing step, not that I'm the big grown man, but I have in mind that I have to show equanimity, calm and confidence to be a bulwark for Nacan not experience, in our relationship, his own life.
Nobody knows when things will last, we only know what they have lasted. Next eleven months I have a wonderful child, nothing has been easy, all we have achieved together has been hard work, understanding, patience and hope that dialogue and respect are the foundation to move forward relacióny our love .... and even in that I have this to my dad.
Our life was simple but not a soap opera drama, but remembering the thousand and one things that my family had to do to get ahead after arriving from Oaxaca to Cancun, I see with pleasure that I, Nef, again el love, patience, perseverance and work my father and mother showed the life educate me and my sister.
The joy of living by being alive and doing something for the loved that love is the lesson that I now remember my dad and mom, teaching was always in my mind waiting the ideal time to be present and help me grow.
I have my own family now, small but mine. While away, I am pleased to say that my parents would not have left me alone and that even in the distance still teaching me to be a better human being.
Yes, my life ... but alsoof them also because I'll always be your child.
Greetings.
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